My hometown pool, for which I’m forever grateful.
That’s an interesting way to view the world. Instead of taking things for granted, take a moment to appreciate what we have. Flip the things you don’t want to do on their heads and be thankful you are able to do them.
Last Sunday, my daughter who is out of state at college, drove an hour from campus to my husband’s childhood friend’s church, CenterPoint Church in Orem, UT. My hubby’s friend from elementary through high school grew up to be a pastor. As a mom, I was thrilled that she took the time to go to church, visit family friends, and decided to do this all on her own!
Anyway, she texted, “This was just what I needed. The sermon’s message was ‘I don’t have to, I get to!”
I suppose that’s a pretty good message during finals week for any college student, right?
I wish I could have been with her and heard the message, too. I’m guessing it was a talk about our outlook. What an interesting thing to try out.
Olive has an interesting viewpoint.
When I vacuumed today, I reminded myself that I don’t have to vacuum. I get to! I’m lucky to be in my home, pursuing my writing dreams—and I’m able to vacuum, too, whenever I want!
My best friend from college is here. Her dad is a snowbird (which means he lives in our valley for the winter months to enjoy our sunshine). She’s here to visit him because he suffered a stroke and is in the hospital. I bet he understands what I’m talking about — “I don’t have to. I get to.”
When I was my daughter’s age, I was hit by a truck at college. I was hurt pretty badly and laying in bed in the hospital, I didn’t care about the things I had been obsessed about the week before. I no longer cared about losing five pounds, or what my grade was on a paper. I really worried about being able to get out of bed and walk. I was instantly reminded of all that I took for granted. I was thankful to be alive.
My daughter happy to be swimming for years.
Last week I wrote about how to encourage your kids to be more positive. You can read more about it here on SwimSwam. I think the secret to having positive kids is being grateful, thankful and positive in your own life. Most of what our kids learn from us is through our actions—not our words.
If your child is excited about going to practice–whether or not it’s swimming, ballet or a piano lesson–then they will love what they are doing. Or, we can tell them that “they have to go,” and the outcome will be less than pleasant for everyone as you beg, plead and threaten.
My kids at a piano recital. They didn’t have to. They got to!
Rather than complain about what you have to do, think about how grateful you are for the opportunity.
“I don’t HAVE to. I GET to!”