Count Your Blessings

What are you grateful for today? What do you think of counting your blessings?

A Special Evening

camping at the beach
Camping at Carpinteria State Beach with the kids and Angus, a few years ago.

Here are photos from our Labor Day picnic at the beach:

Have you had campfires or camped at the beach? What are your thoughts on s’mores? What foods bring back memories to you?

“I want to get away…”

Do you need to have downtime in your weeks, too? Or can you be super social and enjoy it?

Hide and Reveal

The characters on the brochure are our gardens name, Rohoen (鷺鳳園), and represent the following:

鷺 Ro – Japanese word for Heron, a symbol of Himeji City. Shira Sagi Jou, or the White Heron, is the name of the famous Himeji Castle, a UNESCO World Heritage Site. (Himeji City is the sister city of Phoenix.)

鳳 Ho – Japanese word for the mythical Phoenix bird.

園 En – Japanese word for Garden.

From the Visitor’s Guide:

The Japanese Friendship Garden, Rohoen, is an authentic Japanese stroll garden designed by Mr. Nozomu Okita in the traditional miegkaure (見え隠れ) style. Miegakure, or hide-and-reveal design, is prevalent in Japanese stroll gardens where the entirety of the garden is never visible at once. Instead, the viewer is led to uncover intentionally hidden views of the landscape while strolling along its curved paths. New visual compositions are revealed as one moves through the various garden regions. Each rock, plant, and ornament has been selected and placed with skill and sensitivity. 

Kasuga-doro (春日灯籠, stone lantern from Kasuga) are the style of lantern most frequently used in Japanese gardens. They originated at the Kasuga shrine in Nara, Japan’s ninth century capital. Our ten-foot tall Kasuga-doro is our main lookout point, where the garden’s four distinct landscapes are easily viewed. These include the low-lying grasslands, the woodlands, forested mountains, and stone beaches. 

Our guests brought us fruit from their garden:

Here are photos from our tour:

Where have you visited Japanese gardens? What was your favorite part?

Have you ever tried a mulberry?

Time for friends

My New Buddy

Rescue dog named Buddy

Here’s a view of the dramatic mountains near Tucson while out walking with Buddy.

How not to be boring at 60

diving off the blocks
That’s me diving off the blocks in my first swim meet.

From the article:

That’s when it hit me: I didn’t have anything new and exciting to tell them. My life had gotten entrenched in routine. Calcified, if you will. I had stopped evolving, and I think we all know what happens then—like the dodo, you stop flying, get fat and Dutch sailors eat you on their voyage home.

I needed to figure out a way to turn this around. I vowed to take that big, upsetting number 60 and remake it into something positive: I decided I would do 60 things I’d never done before. Maybe that would force me to forge new neural pathways in the dog-eared map that was my brain.

https://www.wsj.com/lifestyle/how-to-avoid-being-boring-at-60-1e9d087a?mod=lifestyle_trendingnow_article_pos1

I was a guest on a podcast hosted by Wynne Leon and Dr. Vicki Atkinson on The Heart of the Matter.

I went to Sacramento and gave a talk to a group of swim parents due to my weekly swim parenting column on a website that had millions of readers per month. (Oh yes, I also started writing that column! Plus started a website where I interviewed swimming stars and coaches in Southern California). Public speaking is one of my biggest fears. I practiced and practiced. My son drove me to the meeting and sat in the audience, so I spoke directly to him.

What would I like to do that I haven’t done?

What’s on your list of things to do to not be boring as you age?

What have you done that you believe keeps you young?