
Today is Wednesday. I’ve been waiting patiently for today to arrive for several weeks. My daughter is coming to visit. She is driving from the Bay Area and should be here within the hour. This is the first time anyone from our family will see our new home. We moved in December.
When we announced to our kids that we were selling our home, they were furious. They were so angry with us that we’d consider selling the only home they ever knew. All the memories of their lifetimes were wrapped up in our 1930’s old Spanish home. Birthday parties, sleepovers, hanging out with friends between swim practices. Christmas, Easter egg hunts, spaghetti feeds for the team. Playdates at the neighborhood park. They were born in the hospital a few blocks away.

So today, I get to see my daughter. It took several months for our kids to get over their sadness. They were never coming to Arizona to see us, they told us. But now we get the first visit.
It’s been a tough year for a lot of us. The shut down for two weeks to flatten the curve turned into a long year with people suffering from lost jobs, lost wages, isolation, depression and anxiety. My daughter lost her job due to COVID around 10 or 11 months ago. We told her she’d be fine with the enhanced unemployment. But the state of California couldn’t get that right. She was one of approximately 1.13 million people who are in unemployment limbo.
She got a few checks and then they stopped. They owe her thousands of dollars from summer through today. Nobody answers the phone. She calls and calls. When she was lucky to get through after weeks of calling, the person on the other end of the line said they couldn’t see anything wrong with her file. Finally, after writing to her Assemblywoman and Congressmen, she got through a second time. She was told she was going to receive all her back unemployment. She was thrilled. A week later she was told she’s back on hold and they were investigating her account for fraud. She was crushed. And she continues on in limbo.
Here’s an excerpt of an article that explains the ongoing problems with California unemployment:
With an added emphasis on fraud, the EDD spent the remainder of December locating unemployment benefit cases that were ‘potentially fraudulent’, eventually find around 3.5 million cases that fit that description by late December. Two million of the cases were immediately disqualified, such as those sent to inmates and some registered to deceased people, leaving 1.4 million to be suspended in January while the EDD takes a closer look at them.
The suspension of the accounts led over a million unemployed Californians to learn of the situation in the last week. Many found out from communication with the EDD, being told that “Your claim is suspended because it may be tied to fraudulent activity.” Others received notices in the mail reading “You have been receiving unemployment benefits, but we have temporarily suspended your claim because it may be tied to fraudulent activity. You will receive further instruction from EDD on how to verify your identity beginning Jan. 6, 2021.”
While initially silent, the furor of unemployment beneficiaries, who rely on the money to tide them over during the pandemic while they find another job or wait until their business reopens, led the EDD to make a statement during the weekend, days before the full number of beneficiaries in limbo was known.
“As part of ongoing efforts to fight fraud, EDD has suspended payment on claims considered high risk and is informing those affected that their identity will need to be verified starting this week before payments can resume,” tweeted the EDD. “More details on the EDD website in the days ahead.”
What a nightmare! It’s hard enough to lose your job. But then California can’t do what it’s promised to do to help. It’s been hard for her to stay positive. She’s been locked down in a tiny apartment for months on end and is suffering from depression. The Bay Area has some of the strictest restrictions of the state. Good news is on the way with vaccines. We’ve all had shots. Now that businesses are beginning to open she has found a job and starts next week. She decided to make the trip to see us before her life gets back to normal. I’m so thankful I get to see her!

So glad you get to see her!!
Finally got to give her a hug!
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First off..your puppy..oh.my.gosh.how.cute!!! Secondly your old house..I agree with your kids’ initial reaction..I am never visiting you in Arizona..(HAHA) Kidding of course, but wow- what a gorgeous scene in that back yard.. I’m sure selling was a difficult decision. Three..California..my goodness, that state can’t get or (give anyone) a break. If it wasn’t so beautiful and the weather wasn’t so great..I’m not sure anyone would want to live there (we used to..) Congrats to your daughter..soon this will all be in the rearview mirror.
Thank you for all your positive thoughts this morning. There are many wonderful things about CA – the weather, beaches, etc. But many problems, too.
Honestly, I loved it when we were there. We lived on Coronado when my husband was still in the Navy and then moved to Mission Viejo. Problem was, his commute became more than he could manage..traffic to and from LA was completely impossible..and then there were the earth quakes..not many..but it doesn’t take many to freak me out. Of course the irony is that we moved from there to Miami..just in time for Hurricane Andrew..so yeah..talk about a life changing natural disaster.. 🥴
Coronado is heaven. Mission Viejo is a nice area too. We didn’t have the traffic in Palm Springs, but had to deal with it anytime we wanted to go anywhere. I’m not an earthquake fan either, but hurricanes would freak me out. I’m glad you guys are okay after Andrew!
Ohhh i hope your daughter gets her checks soon
She’s beyond frustrated. I think she’s owed $7,000.
Oh wow 🤯