Ever have one of those weeks? Where everything seems to be happening at once? I’m having one and I’m thankful it’s Friday.
My week started with one thing on the schedule each day. That’s unusual for me. I usually have more down days than days with things planned. I had appointments, my lunch bunch went to a fun new restaurant, I had a board meeting for my women’s group that supports sex trafficked women. We invited a neighbor over for dinner Thursday because his wife is out of town. I had my zoom call where we discuss all the things you’re not supposed to in polite company — current events, politics and yes, religion!
I even made it to the YMCA and started lap swimming again! Yay for me! It feels wonderful to be back in the water and helps my toes that have started to hurt again during my walks. I will credit swimming to keeping me calm during my super, busy week.
I got a phone call while out to lunch with my friends. A swim mom friend from Palm Springs called. We usually talk for an hour. I didn’t answer because like I said, I was out to lunch. I forgot about the call and then I saw they texted me several times. I realized I had missed a few calls from her earlier in the week, too.
This mom was one of my best friends on the swim team. I went to my first swim meet when our son was in second grade. I was overwhelmed. It’s like landing on another planet. I didn’t know what was going on. Our son was scared. We couldn’t figure out how we were supposed to know when he was supposed to line up at the blocks.
The first person to greet me with a big smile and welcome was this woman, who would become one of my best friends.
Our two kids swam with her daughter, who went to the Beijing Olympics at age 16 and London at 20. Their daughter is so humble that once our daughter said to her, “Wow. I get to train with an Olympian.”
She looked around and answered, “Really? Who? Where’s the Olympian?”
Our son and her daughter would do homework together at the pool before practice when they were in high school.
Wednesday night I called and my friend asked if they could stay with us for three or four days starting the next day. Her husband is in a spear fishing tournament at a lake by us. He wants to scout out the lake before the big event. Of course I said yes.
They are arriving Thursday, while we’re having our neighbor over for dinner.
Thursday morning, I moved Olive and all her cat stuff from the casita into our master bathroom. I moved my files, books and laptop, too. We had guests a little over a week ago, and I prepped and readied the casita for them. Gradually, my stuff and Olive’s found it’s way back in there.
Sheets are washed, bed is made and grocery shopping is done to stock their fridge with a few goodies. I’m good to go. I did let her know that I had two meetings on Friday and would be gone most of the day.
She said she’s not expecting me to entertain her. So all is good! But I was a bit overwhelmed….
Do you like busy weeks, or quiet alone ones? Or a mix of the two?
At age 60 I find I like a mix of busy and calm. Too much busy wears me out. Love having company, but it’s sure a lot of work.
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Thank you! I’m with you. I like a mix. This week is too busy, but nothing on the calendar can be too much isolation.
I’m like Rivergirl. I like a little bit of both but too much of either – busy or calm – can be problematic. Cheers to your busy, fun-filled and productive week, Elizabeth! 🥰
I totally agree. Too much business wears me out. Too much of no connection with people isn’t good for me, either.
I like a mix, but I’m learning that I prefer quiet ones. 🩷
Me too. I don’t like too busy, but like a quieter mix.
Love great friends like you described. I like to be busy … but not too busy for too long of a stretch. I like lots of chances to regroup and calibrate! Good luck managing things!
Thanks! Yes, these are such good friends they helped us move. This week is too busy for me but it’s almost over.
You’re back working with the PR agency where you worked … gotta meet your deadlines. Ha ha. Try to slow down!!! 🤣🤣😎😎
Yes, it does feel that way. Lots of deadlines.
Oh, that is a busy week! Unexpected guests, even dear ones, put a crimp in the schedule. I like to have some downtime but the busy weeks have their own charm! Enjoy!
Yes, unexpected guests changed my whole day. If I was more relaxed about clean sheets and a clean house, it would be easier! 😅
I’m good with a couple of busy days but a busy week becomes overwhelming. I hope you have a good time with your friends
Thanks. I’m still feeling overwhelmed. Yesterday I spent six hours in meetings then home to guests.
That is too much busyness
Way too much for me!
Totally understandable
I like a mix of busy weeks then slower weeks, then busy weeks, then slower weeks. It’s the balance between the two that keeps me alert.
I’m hoping for a slower week coming up!
What a week! I like a little of both. If either becomes too much then it’s not good for the mind or body. 🙂
I’m with you. This week was way too much. Friday I had two long meetings and was busy from 9:30 a.m. to 5:00 p.m. Then I had to make dinner for our guests. My husband was a champ and got Chinese take out!
Yay, for your husband! I hope this coming week offers more time for slow breaths and respite.
Yes, he was a lifesaver. This week will be a mix but much easier.