Photo from my son and daughter-in-law’s wedding day.
It’s been a long six months, but Monday was the final treatment day for my daughter-in-law. Every two weeks, my son has driven her over the bridge to UCSF for chemo.
I’ll never forget the worry I felt during her surgery. We were on vacation at the time. They were supposed to spend a week with us in Santa Barbara at the beach when they found out she had cancer was was having surgery immediately. I wrote about surgery day HERE. The linked post includes a beautiful poem by my DIL after she met my son at UCSB.
Every day I pray for my DIL and my son. Over the weekend, they were moving into an apartment and my son hit his head. He hit it badly. I was in shock when my daughter called me from the ER.
He’s now down with a really bad concussion. Seriously? Do they need this now?
Have you noticed how life interrupts life just when you think it’s getting better?
What are your thoughts about how quickly this last six months went by?
Oh no, a concussion. That’s crazy, hope he’s doing better. But on the plus side, glad your daughter in law has had her final treatment, that’s great news. They’ve definitely had their share of challenges. Here’s hoping for smooth sailing and good news the rest of the way. Sending positive thoughts and prayers. 🙂 🙂
Thank you for your prayers, Brian. I couldn’t believe it about the concussion!
Crazy … and I’m sure so frustrating for your son. We had a few challenges early in our marriage. In the long run, it made us stronger. Found out that we were stronger than we thought. But still frustrating. Hang in there.
I like that point of view. I hope it does make them stronger.
I’m sure it will. You overcome what they’ve had to face, you’re made of strong stuff. Great news on the last treatment!!😊😊😊
Thank you! I don’t know if I’m made of strong stuff or not. But it’s nice to hear that. I tend to worry.
Oh my — feeling the same as Brian. I’m so sorry to hear about the concussion. One more thing. Sigh. I’m glad to hear that Buff’s concluded her treatment – thinking all good thoughts for all of you. I agree with your poignant observation, Elizabeth “life interrupting life”. So well put. Treasuring every moment seems to be the only antidote. xo 💕
Thank you, Vicki. We don’t know what each day will bring. I like your antidote 🥰
Much love, dear one. Much love. 💕
That means so much to me ❤️
From the heart…every bit. xo! 💕
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This must be very upsetting for you Elizabeth. I hope that he recovers quickly. Lots of prayers to your family
It’s more drama than I would like. Thank you for your prayers.
Hopefully he will be alright soon. Hugs 🥰
Thank you 💕
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As a chemo patient myself, I can say that while the months are flying by at warp speed, chemo drags on at a snail’s pace. My experience is teaching me that whatever unpleasantness might lie just around the bend brings the discovery of how much love surrounds and supports us on our journey, and a greater understanding of the experience of others who walk the same path. Your son and DIL are blessed to have you routing for them and I join you in your prayers for both. Blessings come wrapped in many different surprise packages. 🙏🙏🙏
I didn’t know that you were or are a chemo patient, too. Thank you for sharing your perspective.
Thinking of all of you EA, and really hoping that this young couple can finally find some peace as they move ahead.
Thank you, Deb. 💕
Sorry they are going through so much
Thank you. It’s a lot.
Wow! Hope your son is okay.
Thank you. This parent worrying never ends.
Oh my goodness! I hope he feels better soon! I’m glad she is done with chemo. Does she have a CAT scan to see her progress?
I’m not sure what steps are next. But I’m sure she’ll have tests periodically.
Six months already? So glad to know Buff’s chemo is over. Too bad about the concussion. I hope the new apartment is a great place for him to recover. You’re right – life isn’t easy! Sending lots of love to them all!
And sending love to you…didn’t mean to leave you out of course, Elizabeth! 🙂 <3 <3
Thank you 🥰
Thank you, Wynne. I think the apartment will be good for them. As Buff said they can live like a married couple rather than having roommates.
Why does it seem to happen just when it’s about the worst time – just when it seems like a new day is dawning. I hope he recovers quick and well. Glad to hear Buff is done with treatment.
Unfortunately her very last chemo treatment didn’t go as planned. She’s been back to the hospital for two more days. It’s nothing serious, but an inconvenience.
Bummer.
Yes. I think she’s all done today.
It’s march….still can’t believe we are into 2024…
Me either.